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What lands in your inbox

When they say "fine"

What to do when every question gets a one-word answer.

When the back chat starts

Why it's rarely about disrespect, and how to respond without a fight.

The need underneath

The five needs that sit under most teenage behaviour, and under yours too.

A laugh over pizza

I honestly didn't think something so simple would work. But the first time I flipped his one-word answer, he actually paused and kept talking. For the first time in months, we had a laugh over pizza.

Nadine

Parent

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